掐架

在这个家庭里我们是应该互相掐架

Now , in this family , do we kick and punch each other ,

几只大象在掐架？

How many elephants are charging ?

艰难的决定：这个词来源于360与腾讯公司的一场商业掐架。

A hard decision : This phrase originated from the business competition between China ´ s Internet firm Tencent and Qihoo .

那就是他们会互相掐架--开始于其中一个对另一个动了什么手脚，另一个就要还手。然后冲突很快就会升级。

they get into fights -- which started with one of them doing something to the other , the other retaliating . It quickly escalates .