哈弗福德学院

宾夕法尼亚州哈弗福德学院（HaverfordCollege）的研究人员发现，与伴侣分离时想念伴侣的人对双方的关系更投入，更努力地呵护这种关系并避免出现欺骗等破坏行为。

Researchers at Haverford College , in Pennsylvania , found people who missed their partners when apart from them were more committed to the relationship , worked harder to take care of it and avoided damaging behavior such as cheating .

这项研究的作者之一，来自哈弗福德学院的社会心理学家本杰明乐讲道：谈到在脸谱网上公开情感一事，好事也会有过度的时候。

As one of the authors of the study , Haverford College social psychologist Dr. Benjamin Le , put it : When it comes to relationship disclosure on Facebook , there can be too much of a good thing .

该研究的论文去年发表于《社会与个人关系》（JournalofSocialandPersonalRelationships）杂志。论文主要作者、哈弗福德学院的心理学副教授本杰明•勒（BenjaminLe）说，“想念促使你去努力维护你的社会关系。”

Missing prompts you to maintain your social connection , ' says Benjamin Le , associate professor of psychology at Haverford and lead author of the study , published last year in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships .

，我也认为对于哈弗福德学院来说，这样的结果是不折不扣的失败。任何一个认为有必要聆听多种观点并相互尊重的人——我想我们大多是这样的人，都不会觉得这是场胜利。”

g with the views of many others in higher education , I regard this outcome as a defeat , pure and simple , for Haverford - no victory for anyone who believes , as I think most of us do , in both openness to many points of view and mutual respect . "