爱者

因为，施爱者总是在试图不断地使被爱者尊严无存。

For the lover is forever trying to strip bare his beloved .

你将存于爱者眼中和这字里行间。

You live in this , and dwell in lover 's eyes .

Fisher博士的工作揭示了恋爱人群真实的行为模式，比如：试图唤起被爱者的报答&类似于强迫性混乱症（OCD）。

Dr Fisher 's work , however , suggests that the actual behavioural patterns of those in love such as attempting to evoke reciprocal responses in one 's loved one resemble obsessive compulsive disorder ( OCD ) .

Fisher博士的工作揭示了恋爱人群真实的行为模式，比如：试图唤起被爱者的报答——类似于强迫性混乱症（OCD）。

Dr Fisher 's work , however , suggests that the actual behavioural patterns of those in love - such as attempting to evoke reciprocal responses in one 's loved one - resemble obsessive compulsive disorder ( OCD ) .

当然，被爱者也同样可能是任何类型的人。

Now , the beloved can also be of any description .

因此，施爱者只有惟——种选择。

So there is only one thing for the lover to do .

它希望和那个爱者结合。

It wants to get to merge with the Lover .

我们是被爱者当中被嫌弃的一群。

We are the cursed of the loved ones .

深爱者青春永驻。

Those who love deeply never grow old .

第一，它是以所爱者的互爱为前提的；

In the first place , it assumes that the person loved returns the love ;

神所爱者多夭折。

Whom the God loves dies young .

但愿是爱者的手扶之杖。

Hope is a lover 's staff .

被爱者总是害怕进而憎恨施爱者，而这种心理的产生有其充分的理由。

The beloved fears and hates the lover , and with the best of reasons .

被爱者也可能奸诈、油头滑脑，而且沉溺于各种恶习。

The beloved may be treacherous , greasy headed , and given to evil habits .

我要为我所亲爱的唱歌，是我所爱者的歌，论他葡萄园的事。

Now will I sing to my wellbeloved a song of my beloved touching his vineyard .

他们中有爱者和被爱者，但各自的情况却大相径庭。

There are the lover and the beloved , but these two come from different countries .

每一颗心应当是我的庙宇，我的爱者则是那爱之庙宇里的牧师。

The heart of each should be my shrine , and my lover the priest of that temple of love .

“告诉我你所爱者是谁，”何赛写道，“我就知道你是什么样的人。”

" Tell me whom you love ," Houssaye wrote ," and I will tell you who you are . "

施爱者总渴望与被爱者尽可能有一些关系，尽管这样做只会给他带来痛苦。

The lover craves any possible relation with the beloved , even if this experience can cause him only pain .

我总是遇到这样一个现实：人是有限的，而我却要他们成为无限的爱者。

In a way , I always bump into the reality that people are limited and I want them to be unlimited lovers .

目的了解男同/双性爱者的高危性行为状况，为行为干预提供理论依据。

Objective To investigate the situation of homosexual / bisexual men 's high risk behavior and provide relevant interventions for AIDS control and prevention .

通常，被爱者只是一个刺激因素，激发起施爱者长期隐藏在心底的爱。

Often the beloved is only a stimulus for all the stored uplove which has lain quiet within the lover for a long time hitherto .

往往，被爱者仅仅是爱者心底平静地蕴积了好久的那种爱情的触发剂。

Often the beloved is only a stimulus for all the stored-up love which has lain quiet within the lover for a long time hitherto .

被爱者即害怕又恨着爱人的人，原因是，爱人的人永远都在试图剥去被爱者的面具。

The beloved fears and hates the lover , and with the best of reasons , For the lover is forever trying to strip bare his beloved .

的确，施爱者对此可能像其他人一样了解得一清二楚。但是，这丝毫不影响他的爱情的进展。

Yes , and the lover may see this as clearly as anyone else - but that does not affect the evolution of his love one whit .

值此悲伤时刻，我们和你们站在一起，你们悼念着如此众多你们所爱者的丧生并在继续搜寻失踪者。

We stand with you during this tragic moment as you mourn the loss of so many of your loved ones and search for those still missing .

被爱者的透明、不可思议的淡漠、那令人丧失的东西，都在光的无限晶体中不见了：再也不必想到它。

The transparency of the beloved , miraculous indifference , what makes one lost , is lost in the infinite crystal of light : to never think of it again .

他会逐渐地认识到一种新奇而又陌生的孤寂。而且，正是这一认识使他忍受痛苦。因此，施爱者只有唯一一种选择。

He comes to know a new , strange loneliness and it is this knowledge which makes him suffer , So there is only one thing for the lover to do .

固然神所爱者早死，万物莫不如此，但是他们也断然因此与神一起永生。

For that the favorites of the gods die early , is true in all things ; but it is just as certain that they then live eternally with the gods .

需要补充说明的是，我们谈论的施爱者未必是一个为买结婚戒指而储蓄的年轻人——他可能是男人、女人或者是孩子，甚或是世界上任何一个人。

Let it be added here that this lover about whom we speak need not necessarily be a young man saving for a wedding ring this lover can be a man , woman , child , or indeed any human creature on this earth .