直到前不久——他已经从我这里辞职了，我才意识到他当时对我有多反感，因为我踩过界了，越俎代庖，想要替他解决问题。
It wasn 't until later -- when he was no longer working for me -- that I found out how resentful he had been that I had stepped in and decided to try to solve his problem for him .
踩过界