privateness

Their chief use for delight is in privateness and retiring ;

其怡情也，最见于独处幽居之时；

Their chief use for delight , is in privateness and retiring ;

它主要用于获得快乐，是在私人静养期间；

A man 's nature is best perceived in privateness , for there is no affectation ;

人的天性很容易被察觉，因为天性无法掩饰。

There are many types of relationships between publicness and privateness , such as difference , opposition , unity , and so on .

公和私的关系有差异、对立、统一、合一等多种形态。

Their chief use for delight , is in privateness and retiring ; for ornament , is in discourse ; and for ability , is in the judgement and disposition of business .

娱乐的作用通常见于离群独处时；装饰的作用体现在高谈阔论中；至于才能，则表现在裁处事务上。

Therefore let a man either avoid the occasion altogether , or put himself often to it , that he may be little moved with it A man 's nature is best perceived in privateness , for there is no affectation ;

因此一个人应当或者完全躲避这种机会，或者常常与这种机会接触，以便少被牵动。人底天性在私生活里最易看出，因为在那种生活里是没有虚饰的；